Anonymous asked: I have a constant struggle between trying to be like Jesus and helping people, doing things for others, being kind etc and being a push over. I love being helpful but I feel like many people take advantage of me because of it, and when that happens I get upset and stand up for myself. However I always feel bad, like I should do it even though I'm being used. Do you have any advice?

To love does not mean to tolerate one’s wrongdoing. Remember, Jesus never let people walk all over Him. He stood up for the Truth, whether people liked it or not.

You have to draw boundaries because sometimes being too tolerant will not help the other person, but end up hurting them instead. When you see something wrong or when you are being wronged, then try to correct them but do it in love. Love sometimes mean being honest even when it hurts.

I hope that helps. God bless you <3

—Victoria