Anonymous asked: part 1 Okay, for all those who are saying that being gay is not a choice: I struggle with lust towards women and I'm a young Christian woman. Looking back, i realise i've struggled with sexual attraction to both men and women since my early teenage years. When I first discovered this i was horrified and I was lying in bed on night thinking "i can't beleive it. Is this me?" Then I decided that no, this is NOT me. I know what I feel is a sin and I know that I can overcome it with God.

Like I said, it’s an everyday struggle- the sexualisation of women is everywhere but I have made the CHOICE to fight against the urges to stare at those pictures or linger on those thoughts because I CHOOSE to have the life God wants for me- He’s been amazing in revealing my husband to me and I REFUSE to LET these urges grow further and push me from the path of God. Do I love gay people? yes, of course. But I believe, from personal experience that it definitely is a choice.